'List' people are generally not spontaneous people... I overthink everything, but last year I learned about spontanaeity!
I think the first thing was getting a dog! Vince always wanted one, but weighing up the pros and cons was my speciality and the cons would almost certainly outweigh the pros. Then Delia, who owns Roxy's sister Sheba, offered us Roxy... and would you be able to say no to something that looked so cute and cuddly?
So in a very unusual move I said 'yes' and we became Roxy's proud owners!
It snowballed from there... during Bekah's study leave in early summer we dropped off the younger children at school and drove out, on a whim, to Aberieddy, to the Blue Lagoon. 300ft of water and the feeling of swimming and diving into this quarry pool was unbelievable and totally life affirming!
After that we took a helicopter ride over Carmarthen, arranged by Vince. I went on two youth camps, in the rain... and we planned a mystery day out for the children. Edinburgh for the day! The children's first plane trip, and an amazing experience!
But anything can be fun and create an experience, a memory... we got caught by the tide on Llansteffan beach and had to wade through the incoming sea to safety, well, our wellies were waterproof, they didn't leak out once they were filled with sea water!
We queued for Five hours to see a Banksy exhibit at Bristol Museum... five hours in a crowded queue with three children, you either bond or you end up wanting to strangle each other, thankfully it was the former this time!
So there are still things I want to do: parachute jump, sleep beneath the stars, eat a box of chocs on my own, build a huge sandcastle... and the message is to do it... don't wait for the right time, the dog I put off for years is my constant companion, and she has opened up so much for our family, fun walks in the snow, autumn leaves, sand etc...
After all, life is meant to be fun...and I'm planning some more spontanaeity!
'Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention
of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body,
but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand,
wine in the other, body thoroughly used up,
totally worn out and screaming
WOO HOO! What a ride!!'